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I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU FELL FOR THIS TOO.

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I'm talking about the perfection trap.  Don't fall for this, you will never attain it. You will stretch but it will never be enough because guess what, you don't even know how to measure perfect, nobody does. Whatever we do is an expression of our opinion and a collection of other people's beliefs which we have now accepted, so how then can we measure "perfection " if we are all trapped in our biases. Do you realize that no matter how exceptionally genius an art or piece of writing is, someone always has something to say about how it would have been better? Rather than striving for perfection, I will suggest you go for "excellence" here, it is ok if you don't get it right the first time but as far as you are willing to make corrections and improve constantly you can attain excellence. Here is one thing you can do to achieve excellence.                   Don't stop learning. This sounds bori...

YOU WILL BECOME

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Sincerely, growing up is not all fun and games as earlier envisioned... I mean, thought I will grow up, do whatever it is I wanted, go out when I wanted, have all the money in the world (lol) you can imagine my shock when I graduated. I had an expectation of where I wanted to work, what my earnings would look like and of course it wasn’t a small figure, jokes on me now. The thing is, I wasn’t ready for these responsibilities but they came anyway. The days of serial brokenness (if there is a word like that), when I don’t feel like seeing the sun and I doubted my relevance all befell me. But by now, you can totally relate to this if you are in your adolescence or adult phase but the truth is no-one was given a guideline on how to handle these things because we have our unique experiences and what sets you apart is how gracefully you handle these loads of responsibilities coming your way. One thing is vital, “Preparation”.  being on this adolescence rol...

ATTITUDE CAN KEEP YOU FROM ATTITUDES

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                              The law of “Reciprocity” is applicable in almost every facet of life if not all. What you give is what you get. Attitude is your predisposition and reaction towards an idea or individual which is birthed from your perception, orientation, and thought process. simply put, your attitude sums up your personality. Most times the reactions gotten from people are impressions they have had based on previous interactions, perceptions or similar experiences, and stereotypes. Often times, it could be that you are both having a bad day or some people are just blessed with an attitude problem but you can’t let that bother you or ruin your day. A fight cannot occur without two angry people, you don’t have to be the angry one. You can sway bad energy with good.     Here are a few easy steps to revert   attitude...
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6                                6. COMPETENCE: “Becoming the richest man is not championship, it is all about competence.”  Carlos Helu. Employ people that are right for the job not people that look right for the job, having the wrong people can cost you a lot, it is advisable to train personnel’s after recruiting them. Employ at least one expert and one experienced person in the field because a great team is better than a great product. “If you pick the right people and give them the opportunity to spread their wings and put compensation as a carrier behind it, you almost don’t have to manage them.” Jack Welch. 2.       7.   COMMUNICATION:   pay attention to your staff as much as you pay attention to your customers, they are the back bone of your business make them comfortable and your work place conducive for them to work. Your workers can’t meet your target if the...
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          Starting or maintaining a business venture requires intentional actions from both staff and founders of the venture. The pride that comes with watching your business grow can be equaled to watching your  child grow through all the life phases and succeed . Not all business ventures would have the same structure but these elements are essential to cement every existing structure. we will have this elements in in series, lets do this!   INTEGRITY:  “it takes 20 years to build a reputation and only five minutes to ruin it. If you think about that you will do things differently” Warren Buffet. Don’t make promises you can’t keep and keep the promises you have made. You have to gain credibility before your customers, as mundane as it may seem many business ventures have lost customers due to unreliability. Make sure customer’s needs are attended to and promises made are kept, don’t tell them your product can make them look 10 yea...
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                ( picture credit. hbr.org)                            ATTENTION! ATTENTION! ATTENTION!!! Attention is the basic and essential capital you can possess as business owner and an employee and trust me, as simple and mundane as it might sound? It’s not easy to place your attention on a particular thing at a time especially when you have a lot to handle before the day runs out. I mean, I have been there before, I will start a project and leave it half way just to scroll my Instagram feeds, watch a movie or read a book. A project that should take a day or two to finish will take me weeks. Don’t judge me, I have changed.   Attention management is an art; you have to be deliberate in practicing it. Well, what is attention management?   It is the practice of controlling distractions, being present in the moment and maximizing focus so you can un...
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"FOR UNTO EVERYONE THAT HATH SHALL BE GIVEN, AND HE SHALL HAVE ABUNDANCE. BUT FROM HIM THAT HATH NOT SHALL BE TAKEN AWAY EVEN THAT WHICH HE HATH." -Matthew 25:29 When I was younger I marveled at the unfairness of the verse above, until I came to understand the true meaning. What you do with what you have been given determines what you will be given.   Expecting more when you haven't utilized what you have already is futile. So you can go on and on about how tomorrow will be better and how great you'll be in the future but as long as you're not doing enough to facilitate that future you'll continuously tell yourself the same thing until one day you realize you're living in the future and it's not as grand as you expected it to be. This is why you must push yourself today to do better than you did yesterday, only the mediocre are always at their best. Striving towards excellence should be the goal at all times and in all situations. It is import...